Moving the Family Rules

By Olga Riano

When I was young and courageous, one of my favorite activities in life was traveling.  I decided I wanted to visit as many cities as I could, so I changed careers a couple of times, looking for reasons to move to different cities.  Searching for new schools in places I wanted to go to.  I became an environmentalist.  This way I could travel and work at the same time.  I would get to move as many times as my job required me to and I could earn some money doing it too.

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As I traveled so much, I learned how to pack light, but I always felt I was a little bit too nomad.  I never had a permanent place to stay: No home, no properties, no refrigerator of my own, no pictures to hang on my own walls, and worst of all nobody to share my traveling with.  I was all by myself.

During one of my job assignments I had to visit a project where a new port would be built.  I was going to verify the environmental standards for the projects design.  This is where I met the traveling man that would make me want to move to the moon if he asked me too.  He was the supervisor for the whole project. I didnt like him at first because we were so different in what environmental requirements were most fit for the project, but when he finally gave in I fell in love instantly.

We got married and after a year my first child was born and my moving passion became a secondary priority.  My husband however, still works as an infrastructure supervisor, so we do get to travel a lot with him.  We still move every couple of years to a new city, but things are different now.  Today I think of all the things my kids need, the whole packing chaos, and the high stress levels of putting my children in a car or airplane every time we move.

Dont take me wrong I still love traveling and meeting new cities and people, its just the moving, packing, unpacking, forgetting, buying again, leaving behind, that Im not so into anymore.  Things arent the way they used to be when I just took a backpack and left everything else behind.  Today I have to worry about my husbands studio, the childrens school, canceling water, gas and electric bills, new phone lines, babys stroller, high chair, car seat etc.

The first few moves were a nag, but after a while I had to set some very special moving rules to make my life easier and the moving process a lot less stressful. Id like to share some of these œmoving the family rules, so travelers like me can make it easier on their families when moving around.

Moving the Family Rules

R1. Dont let the kids help when packing breakables. Its very dangerous, mostly for the breakables.
R2. Always cancel electric, gas, and water bills at least 1 week before you move; eat out or have delivered, you dont want to wash dishes, which youve probably already packed. Tell the kids youre œgoodbye camping the house
R3. If you are moving with a moving company and have the budget, always get full service, since they pack and unpack, they are also committed to responding for any broken or damaged belonging.
R4. Tell your kids they can take 1 box of their favorite stuff, which they can pack themselves, this will entertain them long enough and convince them they are helping out on the move.
R5. If you have plants you dont want to leave behind, have them loaded onto the truck last, this way they will suffer less.
R6. If you have pets like a dog or a cat, dont feed it 1 day before the move, he will be hungry but wont barf in the car.
R7. If you have fish, dont even bother taking them with you, give them away and buy new fish at your new location. Tell your kids theyre in the truck with everything else.
R8. Never use old boxes when packing heavy stuff; old boxes are not steady; not good when packing books, dishware or breakables. Buy the boxes provided by the moving companies
R9. If your kid lost his favorite toy, tell him its in the moving truck and buy a new one for him, if you cant replace it with an exact one, have him evolve into having a brand new favorite.
R10. Convince your children that youre always moving to a better place, fill them with expectations regarding new school and friends, and comfort them on friends left behind.  It is very important for children to learn about and understand change.  Encourage them to call their old school friends on the phone once in a while.
R11. Tip the movers.  They always work better when you tip them, especially since they are handling all your stuff.
R12. Play station portables are the way to go on long car trips.  Children will stay quiet for good.
R13. Leave old things behind or give them away, even to the movers, they know what to do better than just taking things to the trash.  Since many of them have just arrived from foreign countries they can even use your old things in their new homes.
R14. Always have furniture wrapped, its incredible how dirty those moving trucks can get on the inside.
R15. Dont pick a moving company based upon the economic rate they give you initially, it will never be the same rate by the end of the move.  Choose them based upon real recommendations from people you can call and ask about their service.
R16. Sales people at moving companies are very smart and convincing, ask to speak to the manager and if he sounds like a good guy, he probably is, go with your gut, you will probably be right.
R17. Never sign any paper at destination before your move has been completed successfully.
R18. Try to get there before the movers do (it usually is this way) because they will start unloading as soon as they get there.
R19.  Try to move during the summer, moving when it rains is not a very good idea, your things might get spoiled. However, if youve already decided to move, pick a date and book it, because everybody wants to move during the summer and if you take too long in picking a date, you might have to wait.
R20. Never mess with your husbands paperwork, let him do the packing on that one and save yourself a lot of trouble explaining why the prints were folded instead of rolled.

Believe it or not, these are careful considerations made by a woman with 3 kids and loads of stuff who has to move every couple of years and has taken the time to think about the most annoying and complicated steps in the moving process.

I believe I have built some experience on identifying good and bad moving companies over the years, but lately I have been using the same service to pick the company that I feel is the best.  Internet moving portals are very useful tools designed to help you decide which moving company is best for you.  I have found a moving portal that will give me all the information I need.  They even give me the phone numbers for the school district Im moving to. The best part of it is that the moving companies that Ive hired searching through www.vmoving.com have been the best moving companies Ive moved with yet. I thank the Internet for having this online means available   and I expect to keep moving with the companies provided by vmoving.com and recommend it to everyone.

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